3 Mindset Habits of Successful Entrepreneurs

 What mindset habits do successful entrepreneurs have that set them apart?

Habit #1: Always know what you’re working towards (Most important of the mindset habits!)

According to science, visualization is a powerful way to get what you want.

Close your eyes and imagine your dream business and life scenario.

Get very specific: Where are you waking up in the morning? What is the first thing you see when you open your eyes? How do you feel? What is the first thing you do when you get out of bed? What do you eat? Who are you with? WHERE are you? And what does the rest of your day look like?

How much work are you doing? How much money are you making? And how do you feel about your life?

The reason this is so important is because at the end of the day…

Every minute of your life is a decision. What you’re saying, working on, eating, wearing, feeling, loving, hating, and doing. You decide.

And where you are in your life is the result of each of those decisions.

Once you’re clear on where you want to be, then, you can control each and every decision so that it helps brings you closer to your end goal. It all starts with you deciding on what you want, keeping it in mind, and knowing that every action you take is bringing you one step closer.

So do this right now, and enjoy visualizing what you want. It’s your life, and you get to choose what it looks like.

Habit #2: Maintain only beliefs that serve you

What you believe is your reality.

Literally. A belief is a thinking pattern you’ve developed over the years that has formed your image of what you perceive to be the truth. As far as your mind is concerned, your beliefs are your truth. A classic example of this: Here in the U.S., being tan is considered attractive. However, in other cultures, the reverse is true, and the paler you are, the better.

So place the same fit, tan woman in front of someone from the U.S. and someone from China, and the first will consider her highly attractive while the second will consider her the exact opposite. The physical reality of this woman’s appearance is exactly the same, but because of each viewer’s perception, what is “real” for each of them is completely different.

This applies to all beliefs. What you perceive to be true is—for you—the only truth.

That’s why your beliefs define you—who you think you are and what you think you can do.

Think about it this way…

If you are a coach and you think, “I can’t sell my coaching program for $x, I’m not worth $x, why would anyone want to pay me that?” What do you think is going to happen?

Do you think someone else is going to say, “No, you ARE worth that, let me pay you right now?”

Probably not. And you probably wouldn’t even bother ever asking for $x, in which case, you’ll never be paid that. And because of that, you’ll continue believing that you’re not worth $x. It’s a vicious cycle.

So take a few minutes and write down what are you’re thinking about your ability to succeed as an entrepreneur and your worth and ability to sell at a certain price.

You’ll probably be surprised at some of the thoughts. That’s GOOD, because once you recognize them, THEN, you can start training yourself to re-program those thoughts into ones that actually serve you.

Habit #3: Consistently exercise…your mindset

Now, you might try these two exercises I just shared and start realizing some aha’s, BUT, we’re talking about mindset habits here, not just exercises.

Because your mindset is like a muscle: You don’t exercise it just once and then expect that it’ll stay in shape forever. In fact, having a daily mindset routine is one of the most important things you need to do to succeed in business. According to research, mental practices are almost as effective as physical practice.

You have lots of options for what exactly you do, and I’m going to share some of them with you. 

One option is to use affirmations, to consistently re-program your thoughts with ones that serve you.

You can also practice visualization, where you visualize the exact outcome you want to achieve.

Or, you can use journaling to get clear on exactly what you are thinking and want to be thinking.

These are just a few options to help you get started.

The most important thing when it comes to mindset habits, like with physically working out, is to just get started. Then, as you figure out more what you like and what works for you, you’ll naturally settle on the most powerful daily practice for YOU.

Take Photos: Create Happy Moments

Thinking deeply enough to understand the real point. It’s not to discover what you’d actually do if you didn’t have to worry about money, it’s about the essence of what you’d and how you can incorporate that into your everyday life. Would you vacation, would you keep your current job? It just goes to show you whether you value relaxation or accomplishments or whatever else, and understanding what you value is crucial to understanding who you are.

  Take photos to remember happy moments, not prove that you looked good or did something cool. Make a special album on your phone just for ” happy moments.” When you feel good or are enjoying your self or have some kind of revelation, just take a photo of whatever’s in front of you( however unworthy of Instagram it is.) When you look back at these seemingly random snapshots, you’ll experience those feelings all over again. You’ll see, by contrast, the emotional difference between capturing the moments that matter to you and creating moments to matter for other people.

Identify the ” people” you always think are judging you. You know how people always say that? ” People are judging me.” “I’m worried about what people will think.” Most of the time, those” people” are a faceless crowd that only exist  in your mind. In other words, they’re you, projected outward. It’s what you’re judging yourself for. The first step is realizing that the “people” you worry about don’t really exist.

  Think about what makes you feel the most jealous. The things that make us the most jealous and envious are usually the things that we feel we’re not living up to within ourselves. We’re jealous of the beautiful girl not because we want to be beautiful like her, but because we’re lacking something so much more important, which is love for ourselves. We’re jealous of the successful write not because we also want to be lauded, but because we know we’re not doing the work to get there.

I am in love with you

I am in love with you. Nothing is ever going to change

that, you are the most important thing in my life. I love

everything about you from the way you smile and giggle

when I do something stupid, to listening to you talk

about the weather. I want you to feel special. That is one

of the ways that I can truly repay you for being the

greatest person in my life. I couldn’t stop thinking about

you all day. In the morning I woke up thinking about you.

As I was eating breakfast I was thinking about you. I was

even talking about you with my family. With every passing

moment of the day, it is more difficult for me not

to think about you. And that is far from ever being a bad 

thing. It makes me realize how close we are, and how 

great things will be when we can be together. I do my

best to try and keep you happy about us being apart for

these weeks of summer. And it’s hard. I really hate being

away from you. It takes a lot of concentration for me to

try and actually be with other people instead of thinking

about you. It’s really crazy for me. I never knew you could

love someone as much as this.It’s hard trying to be

optimistic about things when we’ve been apart so much

for so long. I want to be with you forever, and I don’t

want to have to go through this again. I feel like us being

apart for so long has brought us closer together. It’s 

made us realize how much we need each other. I always

want to be your side, and it’s difficult to be me

without you. I love you more than I ever dreamed 

possible. 

Letting Go

the economics of letting go

lately i’ve been thinking about

physical things and emotional things:

everything i have to carry.

i feel burdened with memories.

and the way i will hold on to

an item or thought

just in case

it will be of significance later.

i rehearse lines from a conversation had.

memories.

i never let anything gather dust.

because we never know if things

are going to be of

more or less

value in the future.

but lately i have stopped agonising over

the economics of letting go.

i am telling myself

it is okay to forgot.

i am making room for better things.

like light.

like nothing at all.