RELEASE ME

Release me

From the prison,

I’ve created,

I wasn’t forced to participate

I entered of my own free will,

But little did I know,

How my life would go

I’ve been stumbling uphill,

Unable to find self-control,

I swallow poison,

And I know,

I’m slowly killing myself,

There’s no one to blame,

I look in the mirror,

I am ashamed of my reflection,

I want to explain,

Everything I’ve done,

My every wrong,

I need to tell someone,

But no one cares,

They’re too scared,

I will outburst and swear,

Here I am,

At the doctors,

Filling out a questionnaire,

My last hope,

Such despair,

Asking for help,

Release me,

Please.

How To Communicate Value To Clients So You Don’t Have To Sell

 As a service-based business owner, selling may not be something that comes naturally to you. If you’re nodding your head right now, you probably understand the challenges of communicating the value in what you have to offer. After all, unlike physical products, it’s difficult to explain something your potential clients can’t see, right?

Woman holding speech bubble.

What’s more, you know that nobody likes a hard sell. So you end up feeling like you have to convince people to work with you. And you feel nervous and unprepared when you talk to potential clients. So what do you do when you have to promote yourself, but don’t want to sound “salesy”?

Fortunately, there are ways you can communicate your value without any hard-selling at all.

What is “communicating value”?

Communicating your value is basically expressing your authority and ability to help your audience. It allows you to build trust, and to draw their attention to the solutions to their problems. They may even become aware of problems they didn’t know they had–problems which you have solutions for. It helps to break down the barriers that prevent a potential customer from engaging and working with you.

Think of communicating your value as gently leading your audience along on an enjoyable and respectful journey, one where they get to trust you and value your knowledge and expertise.

How to communicate your value

(1) Avoid talking about features and processes

Let’s begin with the number one rule – stop talking about your features and processes.

Unless you’re selling a service to help businesses streamline their processes, your customers don’t really care about the finer details of your programs and services. They just want to know what’s in it for them.

Details of your features and processes are boring. And talking about them is a quick way to turn your potential clients away. Instead, think about how those features and processes translate to benefits for your clients.

Example: When Apple launched the first iPod, Steve Jobs didn’t describe it as a device boasting a 5GB hard drive, but as being capable of “storing 1,000 songs in your pocket”, which was a huge game-changer at the time. A 5GB hard drive is boring. 1000 songs in your pocket? Magic!

(2) Focus on how you can help your audience

A great rule of thumb is to remember that you should make all of your communication about your prospects and customers – not you or your business.

Everything you communicate to your audience should be a demonstration of how you can help them.

You can create case studies to show how your services solve problems for your clients. You can also build content around topics that you know are problems for your audience and include solutions (similar to this article you’re reading right now).

Other ways to help your audience include:

  • Sharing book recommendations
  • Sharing reviews, testimonials, reports, interviews, tools and resources that will smooth your audience’s pathway
  • Sharing your own experience in overcoming similar problems

(3) Create stories everywhere in your business

Stories are gold. They show your audience what you can do intimately because the details remain in your audience’s imagination. Case studies, interviews and all of the ideas I’ve already suggested are forms of stories, especially if they’re linked together into a sequence your audience can follow.

You can also create stories to invoke the senses and emotions, whether it’s joy, laughter, motivation, focus, courage or camaraderie over avoiding fear, loss, and stagnancy. Stories are also great ways to demonstrate how you implement your services, and you don’t have to be a great writer to create stories either. In fact, everyday stories that everyone can relate to often work best.

(4) Reach your audience where they are now

Don’t attempt to reach your audience where you think they are, or where you want them to be. Reach them where they are. This requires a solid understanding of who your audience is, what their problems are and what prevents them from accomplishing their goals. When you have all that information, you can bridge the gaps for them through your content so that they can recognize how you can help them go from where they are to where they want to be.

Don’t forget to create content for different audience types, both in terms of what your customer avatar is and their level of problem or brand awareness.

(5) Solve problems for your audience that prevent them from hiring you

This is a slightly more advanced, but highly effective, strategy. Some potential clients may be close to being able to hire you, but they need to accomplish something else first before doing so. This is where you can step in and solve that initial problem for them. It gives you an opportunity to help your audience and encourages them to take the next steps with your services.

Example 1: You’re an accountant who works with small business owners. Your target audience may be considering hiring an accountant, but right now they’re drowning in a sea of overflowing receipts and invoices that they can’t think straight. So you create a free ebook that teaches them how to organize their receipts and sort through their invoices. And you talk about the value of working with an accountant to prevent future overwhelm.

Example 2: You’re a branding specialist for entrepreneurs. Your target audience wants to start their own businesses but are confused by how to get started. So you create a video series to teach them everything they need to know to start their own business. In one of your videos you discuss the importance of branding and how to find a great branding specialist.

(6) Delight your customers at every turn

If you constantly surprise and delight your audience in everything you do, they’ll expect you to delight and surprise them through your paid content too. The anticipation of the unexpected will keep people returning and buying from you – curiosity is a great motivator.

These little delights don’t need to be grand gestures in order to have a huge impact, but they should go the extra mile. In Chip and Dan Heath’s book, The Power Of Moments, they discuss a hotel in America who offers free ‘popsicles’ for their clientele. It’s a small gesture that goes such a long way that it’s not really a surprise anymore. Many people choose to stay at the hotel purely for the ‘popsicle’ experience. That’s the power of delighting your customers.

Communicating value is one of the most important elements when it comes to promoting your service-based business. Like everything else in business, it takes time, perseverance and patience. But the rewards are well worth the effort.

How do you communicate value to your potential clients?

The little girl

Honor the little girl inside of you, the little girl

that was abused, hurt, abandoned, who felt she

was never enough. Let her feel safe, let her 

know she is loved, tell her everyday. Make her

feel so special, she deserves it, keep her clean

and warm and nourish her with the nutritious

foods. Let her feel free. Let her embrace the 

things she loved doing, skating in the park,

jumping on the trampoline, painting, running,

swimming, making sandcastles, girly

sleepovers, making stories, playing dressup. It

might sound silly, it might sound irrelevant but

honouring the little kid inside of you is going to

bring you so much joy and fulfilment. That little

version of you, still exists, and deserves to be

honoured. Give yourself the love and care, and

joy that was stolen from you as a child.

She had a library

she had a library, you see,

with many different stories to loan.

but the ones you couldn’t borrow

were those that were her own.

they sat there on the bookshelf,

abandoned, collecting dust,

for those she used to show them to

had all broken her trust.

there were some chapters

that to them looked out of place,

and even some words

that they had tried to erase.

there were some empty shelves

because of all the stories they took

and other shelves full of tales

that had never been given a look.

one day a boy came in

and began to fill his cart

with all the books

she’d written from her heart.

at first, she was terrified

but he promised to stay

and read every single one

without stopping halfway.

he brushed off the dust

from the stories that were forgotten

and worked through the pile

until he finally reached the bottom.

then through the stacks of books

he began to try to weave-

you can imagine her heartbreak

when he got up to leave.

but he grabbed her hand

and led her through the door,

for this was just one library

and there were many more.

he told her that he loved

every single word he read,

and he wasn’t forgetting her library

but showing her his instead.

Loving You With Everything

I’m going to love you in your weakest moments to your strongest ones.

 I’m going to love you when you’re happy and I’m going to still love you the most when you’re sad. Don’t you understand? I’m here, and I’m not going anywhere I want to love you, each and every piece of you. I want you with your imperfections as much as I want you for you. 

And I’m always going to be here loving you with everything.